Jason Kempin/Getty Tommy Lee's wife,Brittany Furlan Lee, broke her silence on herrumored separation from the Mötley Crüe rockerin aTikTokon May 17. Furlan, who is a comedian,addressed social media claims that she was broken up with Leeand was seduced by a catfish posing as another rock star, Falling in Reverse frontman Ronnie Radke. In the seven-minute video, Furlan showed that she was in a hotel while dealing with a rocky point in their marriage. "Basically, I told my husband everything," Furlan said. "I said, you know, 'I've been talking to whoever I thought this was on Snapchat — he says it's not him, cool, whatever — 'cause I'm a good person. I mean, I'm not a good person for talking to someone while married. I've been going through a lot in my marriage. No excuse, whatever." Meanwhile, Lee hasn't discussed the status of his marriage and simply shared anInstagram poston May 16 that said: "Who's been catfished?" Lee and Furlan met oncelebrity dating app Rayain 2017 after feeling an initial connection. He popped the question onValentine's Dayin 2018 with asparkling heart-shaped diamond. One year — andone faux wedding— later, Furlanofficially became Mrs. Lee. "I met someone who I can trust because I didn't trust anybody that I've dated before," Furlan said of her spouse in the Netflix documentaryThe American Meme. "I'd say Tommy is my first true love and I'm finally safe and happy." Prior to his marriage to Furlan, Lee was married toHeather Locklearfrom 1986 to 1993 and laterPamela Andersonfrom 1995 to 1998. Keep reading to find out everything about Tommy Lee's wife, Brittany Furlan, from her roots as a reality TV prankster to how she first connected with the rocker. OnHow to Talk to Girls, Furlan revealed that she and her rockstar husband's paths first crossed in 2017 on the celebrity dating app Raya. "I matched with him and he was just so persistent," she recalled. "He was just like, texting me every day, and being like, 'Hey, what are you doing?' ... He was just so nice." Eventually, the pair decided to connect in person. "It was like a week later we ended up meeting up, we were both workingPride fest... I went up and tapped him on the shoulder, and he just gave me the biggest, warmest hug, and he held my hand," Furlan said. "We were just together ever since then." Furlan and Leetied the knoton Feb. 14, 2019, exactly one year after theMötley Crüedrummer proposed with aheart-shaped engagement ring. Furlan announced the happy news on Instagram with aphoto of her pupsdressed up as bride and groom, writing, "It's official!!!! We're married!!! ☺️❤️MR & MRS LEE YAHOOOOOOOO." In 2015,TIME recognized Furlanas one of the 30 most influential people on the internet, alongsideBeyoncé,J.K. RowlingandShakira. By then, Furlan had amassed roughly 8.6 million followers on the now-defunct social media app Vine — the most of any woman on the site. "It's changed my whole life," she said. According to Furlan, her content creation began organically. "I started doing really goofy videos, and my following started going up. It was growing like, maybe 50 new people a day, which was kind of cool," Furlan toldTheWrapin 2014. "When I first started, I was posting all the time, because I was having so much fun with it. It wasn't like now, where you have to be like, 'Vine Scorsese.' " After a while, however, social media got the best of her. "I left Vine because Vine got more toxic for me than it did positive," Furlan told E! in a 2019 episode ofTrue Hollywood Story. "I take everything really personally. When I was on Vine I had 10 million followers, OK? Now I'm on Instagram and I have 2.6 million." Charley Gallay/Getty Furlan may be best known for her short-form comedy, but her real passion is in acting. "I love acting. That's what I originally wanted to do when I came to L.A.," she toldFox Newsin 2020. "When I was 17, I was like, 'I want to act. This is what I want to do.' And then I started doing stand-up. And I was kind of trying to figure out my way. And then the Vine thing came along and with Vine, it was like all this success." Furlan struggled to find film roles after becoming an internet sensation, however. "People kind of didn't take you seriously as an actor because they're like, 'Oh, you're from the internet. You don't know [how to act],' " she told the outlet. "But then finally, people started auditioning me and giving me chances." In addition to a small cameo inPitbull's"Fireball" videoin 2014, Furlan has appeared in several films, includingWe Are Your Friends,Good Mourning,The Unicorn,Deported,Random Tropical ParadiseandThe Dirt— the film adaptation of Mötley Crüe's autobiography. While Lee is the father to bothBrandon ThomasandDylan Jaggerwith ex-wife Anderson, Furlan has no children of her own — and seemingly no plans to add to their brood. When asked if she planned to have kids, Furlan replied, "Oh, no, no, no … we have dogs." Those who follow her on social media know just how much the dogs mean to her. In September 2024, Furlan shared the "scary" story of how she rescued their dog, Neena, from a coyote attack in the couple's backyard in anInstagrampost. In security camera footage from the incident, a coyote can be seen picking Neena up near a swimming pool before running off with the dog in its mouth. Furlan confirmed that Neena had survived after she was able to grab the dog back from the coyote, who "couldn't make it over the wall" with her. "This is in Broad daylight at 1 PM. They are getting more brazen and hungry. Please be safe. I'm not even letting the dogs out anymore," she wrote. "This is ridiculous. Hug your babies extra tight." On Jan. 25, 2023, Lee's ex-wife, Anderson,spoke about Furlanwhile promoting her bookLove, PamelaonThe Howard Stern Show. "She's good to him and I totally support that and think that's great," theBaywatchalum said. "I hate to be annoying and going through this again, I'm sure she's annoyed, but I respect their relationship and just glad he's happy and has someone in his life." Earlier that month, the actress spoke about Lee's marriage in an interview with PEOPLE. "He has a wife, and obviously I respect that relationship, and he is very happy and I'm happy for him," she said. In May 2025, people on social media began to speculate that Lee and Furlan had broken up. The rumors started after Radke claimed on Instagram andTikTokthat Furlan was catfished by someone pretending to be him. Furlan later shared her side of the story in a TikTok video when she admitted that she thought she was speaking to Radke on Snapchat. "Obviously, I'm in a hotel right now. I've been going through a really tough time in my marriage, which was none of anyone's f------ business, but he's made it everyone's business," Furlan said in the TikTok, referring to Radke. The influencer claimed that the person she believed to be Radke had "started trying to seduce me" over Snapchat. The real Radke later learned that someone was pretending to be him on social media, so they spoke about it on Instagram DMs and Furlan asked Radke to leave her and Lee alone. "It's a catfish, cool. I got catfished. Why are you still harassing me?" Furlan then said. "Why are you sending me hundreds of messages? Why are you trolling me? I don't give a f---. I unfollowed you. Leave me alone. That's it." After Furlan told Lee "everything" about the messages, she claimed that Lee "freak[ed] out" and messaged Radke. "You've blown up my whole life on social media," she told Radke. "This is embarrassing for me, embarrassing for my husband." Meanwhile, Lee has not addressed the status of his marriage but simply posted on Instagram on May 16, "Who's been catfished?" Read the original article onPeople
